{"id":1330,"date":"2016-01-07T19:16:52","date_gmt":"2016-01-07T17:16:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.viffslan.com\/?p=1330"},"modified":"2016-01-07T19:16:52","modified_gmt":"2016-01-07T17:16:52","slug":"om-elaka-tanter","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.viffslan.com\/?p=1330","title":{"rendered":"om elaka tanter"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Detta&nbsp;<a href=\"http:\/\/evafrantz.blogspot.fi\/2016\/01\/ar-tanten-den-nya-gubben.html\">tantinl\u00c3\u00a4gg<\/a>&nbsp;hittade jag idag. Det \u00c3\u00a4r intressant, f\u00c3\u00b6r jag har m\u00c3\u00a5nga g\u00c3\u00a5nger funderat kring varf\u00c3\u00b6r vi kvinnor ofta blir s\u00c3\u00a5 elaka. Sj\u00c3\u00a4lvklart inte alla, men en stor del.<\/p>\n<p><b>\u00c3\u201er det n\u00c3\u00a5got vi kvinnor<\/b> (observera generaliseringen) kan s\u00c3\u00a5 \u00c3\u00a4r det att skvallra. Vi \u00c3\u00a4lskar att veta saker f\u00c3\u00b6rst, att ber\u00c3\u00a4tta om dem och f\u00c3\u00a5 andra att s\u00c3\u00a4ga &#8221;va, e de sant?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Men det h\u00c3\u00a4r som Eva skriver om \u00c3\u00a4r ju n\u00c3\u00a5got helt annat. Det \u00c3\u00a4r ju pur elakheter, att f\u00c3\u00b6rs\u00c3\u00b6ka f\u00c3\u00b6rminska och trycka ner andra kvinnor. \u00c3\u201er det avundsjuka som g\u00c3\u00b6r det? \u00c3\u201er vi s\u00c3\u00a5 avundsjuka p\u00c3\u00a5 de som har n\u00c3\u00a5got som vi skulle vilja ha s\u00c3\u00a5 vi liksom m\u00c3\u00a5ste hacka ner p\u00c3\u00a5 det. Jag tycker i alla fall m\u00c3\u00a5nga g\u00c3\u00a5nger att elaka kommentarer genomsyras av avundsjuka&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><b>Ibland tycker jag att de \u00c3\u00a4ldre tanterna<\/b> som Eva skriver om k\u00c3\u00a4nns v\u00c3\u00a4ldigt bittra. Bittra \u00c3\u00b6ver att de inte hade alla de m\u00c3\u00b6jligheter som finns idag, bittra \u00c3\u00b6ver att de levt &#8221;under&#8221; sina m\u00c3\u00a4n i alla \u00c3\u00a5r, inte haft en egen karri\u00c3\u00a4r och vigt sitt liv \u00c3\u00a5t sina barn och alla andra utom sig sj\u00c3\u00a4lv. Jag vet inte om jag har r\u00c3\u00a4tt eller fel, men m\u00c3\u00a5nne det kan ligga n\u00c3\u00a5t i det.<\/p>\n<p>Men varf\u00c3\u00b6r ska man missunna andra saker och ting?! Och det g\u00c3\u00a4ller v\u00c3\u00a4l oss alla. Att gl\u00c3\u00a4dja sig \u00c3\u00a5t andras framg\u00c3\u00a5ng kan ju vara sv\u00c3\u00a5rt, men skulle vi inte m\u00c3\u00a5 b\u00c3\u00a4ttre av att kunna g\u00c3\u00b6ra det lite oftare ist\u00c3\u00a4llet f\u00c3\u00b6r att prata skit n\u00c3\u00a4r n\u00c3\u00a5gon annan lyckas med s\u00c3\u00a5dany som vi kanske ocks\u00c3\u00a5 skulle vilja&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>N\u00c3\u00a5ja, jag s\u00c3\u00a4ger som Eva, l\u00c3\u00a5t oss nu f\u00c3\u00b6rs\u00c3\u00b6ka undvika att bli elaka tanter ;)<\/p>\n<p>\/<i>viffslan<\/i><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Detta&nbsp;tantinl\u00c3\u00a4gg&nbsp;hittade jag idag. Det \u00c3\u00a4r intressant, f\u00c3\u00b6r jag har m\u00c3\u00a5nga g\u00c3\u00a5nger funderat kring varf\u00c3\u00b6r vi kvinnor ofta blir s\u00c3\u00a5 elaka. Sj\u00c3\u00a4lvklart inte alla, men en stor del. \u00c3\u201er det n\u00c3\u00a5got vi kvinnor (observera generaliseringen) kan s\u00c3\u00a5 \u00c3\u00a4r det att skvallra. &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.viffslan.com\/?p=1330\">Forts\u00e4tt l\u00e4sa <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[12],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.viffslan.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1330"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.viffslan.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.viffslan.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.viffslan.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.viffslan.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1330"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/www.viffslan.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1330\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.viffslan.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1330"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.viffslan.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1330"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.viffslan.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1330"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}