{"id":1248,"date":"2015-01-22T22:16:16","date_gmt":"2015-01-22T20:16:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.viffslan.com\/?p=1248"},"modified":"2015-01-22T22:16:16","modified_gmt":"2015-01-22T20:16:16","slug":"om-hur-det-rkar-bli","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.viffslan.com\/?p=1248","title":{"rendered":"om hur det &ldquo;r&aring;kar bli&rdquo;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>S\u00c3\u00a5 b\u00c3\u00b6rjade d\u00c3\u00a5 \u00c3\u00a4nnu en s\u00c3\u00a4song<\/strong> av \u00e2\u20ac\u0153Familjen Annorlunda\u00e2\u20ac\u009d. Jag har f\u00c3\u00b6ljt med n\u00c3\u00a4stan alla s\u00c3\u00a4songen och njuter av alla de underbara barnen. Sen bryr jag mig inte om hur \u00e2\u20ac\u0153regisserat\u00e2\u20ac\u009d det \u00c3\u00a4n m\u00c3\u00a5 vara. Jag fascineras \u00c3\u00a4nd\u00c3\u00a5 \u00c3\u00b6ver hur de f\u00c3\u00a5r ihop livet med s\u00c3\u00a5 m\u00c3\u00a5nga barn. Och att ha m\u00c3\u00a5nga barn \u00c3\u00a4r absolut inget fel eller \u00e2\u20ac\u0153annorlunda\u00e2\u20ac\u009d (vad titeln \u00c3\u00a4n s\u00c3\u00a4ger) men i \u00c3\u00a5r blev jag \u00c3\u00a4nd\u00c3\u00a5 lite provocerad.<\/p>\n<p><strong>D\u00c3\u00a4r sitter tv\u00c3\u00a5 vuxna m\u00c3\u00a4nniskor<\/strong> och bedyrar att f\u00c3\u00b6rra barnet var det sista. De hade best\u00c3\u00a4mt sig f\u00c3\u00b6r att det inte skulle bli fler och de skulle vidta \u00c3\u00a5tg\u00c3\u00a4rder. Men s\u00c3\u00a5 sk\u00c3\u00b6t de upp det och s\u00c3\u00a5 \u00e2\u20ac\u0153r\u00c3\u00a5kade\u00e2\u20ac\u009d det bli ett barn till. Bullshit. Vad\u00c3\u00a5 r\u00c3\u00a5kar? De vet ju uppenbarligen hur man g\u00c3\u00b6r barn, men man tycker ju ocks\u00c3\u00a5 att de skulle besitta kunskapen om hur man inte blir gravid.<\/p>\n<p><strong>N\u00c3\u00a4r man sj\u00c3\u00a4lv \u00c3\u00a4r mitt uppe<\/strong> i en jobbig tid med f\u00c3\u00b6rs\u00c3\u00b6k att bli gravid s\u00c3\u00a5 provocerar kommentaren \u00e2\u20ac\u0153vi skulle inte ha flera men det r\u00c3\u00a5kade nu bli en till\u00e2\u20ac\u009d otroligt mycket. Hur kan det bara r\u00c3\u00a5ka bli, g\u00c3\u00a5ng p\u00c3\u00a5 g\u00c3\u00a5ng, n\u00c3\u00a4r andra f\u00c3\u00a5r k\u00c3\u00a4mpa l\u00c3\u00a4nge eller inte lyckas alls.<\/p>\n<p>Suck. Och jag \u00c3\u00a4r inte avundsjuk p\u00c3\u00a5 n\u00c3\u00a5got s\u00c3\u00a4tt, jag unnar alla som vill ha barn att f\u00c3\u00a5 barn, och m\u00c3\u00a5nga om man s\u00c3\u00a5 vill. Men jag kan inte tro att de \u00c3\u00a4r \u00c3\u00a4rliga n\u00c3\u00a4r de p\u00c3\u00a5st\u00c3\u00a5r att de best\u00c3\u00a4mt sig f\u00c3\u00b6r att inte skaffa flera barn, n\u00c3\u00a4r det \u00c3\u00a4nd\u00c3\u00a5 r\u00c3\u00a5kar bli ett till. <em>S\u00c3\u00a5 Det S\u00c3\u00a5.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Det var min lilla kv\u00c3\u00a4llstanke.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong><font color=\"#21ab36\">\/ viffslan<\/font><\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>S\u00c3\u00a5 b\u00c3\u00b6rjade d\u00c3\u00a5 \u00c3\u00a4nnu en s\u00c3\u00a4song av \u00e2\u20ac\u0153Familjen Annorlunda\u00e2\u20ac\u009d. Jag har f\u00c3\u00b6ljt med n\u00c3\u00a4stan alla s\u00c3\u00a4songen och njuter av alla de underbara barnen. Sen bryr jag mig inte om hur \u00e2\u20ac\u0153regisserat\u00e2\u20ac\u009d det \u00c3\u00a4n m\u00c3\u00a5 vara. Jag fascineras \u00c3\u00a4nd\u00c3\u00a5 \u00c3\u00b6ver hur &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.viffslan.com\/?p=1248\">Forts\u00e4tt l\u00e4sa <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.viffslan.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1248"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.viffslan.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.viffslan.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.viffslan.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.viffslan.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1248"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/www.viffslan.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1248\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.viffslan.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1248"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.viffslan.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1248"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.viffslan.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1248"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}